Sunday October 6, 2013 – We must prepare ourselves in bringing children into our life. God has entrusted us with this important responsibility and wants us to be the best parents that we can, living by His word and desire for our children.
You can’t be ruled by your emotions. You have to have a balance and you have to maintain that balance in the love you give and the discipline you that give. – Pastor Dwayne Terry
Preparing for Children
Stages of Life, Part 01
Proverbs 29:18 (NKJV) – Where there is no vision, the people perish.
Prepare Your Heart and Head
Approach parenting and grand-parenting thinking about what you will contribute.
Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV) – Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.
Understand God trusted your child to you.
Romans 13:4 – For the one in authority is God’s servant for your good… Get the heart of your child.
Malachi 4:6 – He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents; or else I will come and strike the land with total destruction.”
Make Them Mind
There are stages of obedience: obedience, ownership and submission.
Ephesians 6:1 – Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. There are times to be angry.
Ephesians 4:26 – “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,
James 1:19 – My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,
There are attitudes your kids will learn by your example.
Titus 2:6-7 – Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled. 7 In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness